For Pastors, Marriage Ministries, Church Leaders & Couples Mentors
Give Couples a Clear Framework for Stronger, Healthier Marriages
A practical, faith-centered framework with proven tools to help you guide meaningful conversations before challenges become crises — no need to build a program from scratch.
Review the guide and decide whether it fits your church or community.
Hear why we created Marriage Ethos for leaders and couples.
Why Marriage Ethos
You Shouldn't Have to Build a Marriage Group From Scratch
Leaders don't need another program to figure out. You need a proven, church-friendly framework that helps couples grow closer — before disconnection becomes a crisis.
Marriage Ethos gives you everything you need to lead confidently, create safe conversations, and see real transformation in your community.
What You'll Lead With
What’s Inside the Group Leader Guide
Session Structure
Easy-to-follow flow for every session.
Discussion Prompts
Thoughtful questions that spark real dialogue.
Couple Exercises
Practical activities to apply together.
Leader Notes
Insights and tips to lead with confidence.
Workbook Connections
Clear links to reinforce learning and growth.
Safe Group Guidance
Best practices for a safe, respectful environment.
Prevention, Not Just Repair
Marriage Support Shouldn't Begin With a Crisis
Distance grows in the quiet moments — missed conversations, busy schedules, and unresolved tension. Marriage Ethos helps couples build stronger foundations now, so they can navigate life together with unity and grace.
Getting Started
How It Works
Focus on serving couples instead of creating everything from scratch.
Review the Guide
Explore the content and see if it's a good fit for your community.
Choose Your Group Format
Adapt it to your setting and schedule.
Lead the Conversation
Help couples grow closer through guided dialogue.
You Don’t Have To Build
A Marriage Ministry Alone
Hear directly from David and Darlene about why they created Marriage Ethos,
why couples need community, and how church leaders can create conversations
that strengthen marriages.
50+
Years of Marriage
10+
Years Teaching Couples
Designed for
Guided Couple Conversations
Ready to Start a Marriage Group?
Marriage Ethos gives you the framework, tools, and guidance to lead
meaningful conversations without creating everything from scratch.
Trusted By Leaders
What Leaders and Couples Are Saying
"Marriage Ethos is the framework I was looking for. It's practical, biblical, and easy to lead."
Pastor Mark H.
Senior Pastor
"The guide keeps our conversations moving and helps couples apply what they're learning."
Lisa R.
Marriage Ministry Leader
"We started stronger conversations at home and feel more connected than ever."
Jason & Emily T.
Married 16 Years
What Our Couples Are Saying
"They gave tools and golden nuggets that we could use when the time gets tough in our marriage."Gabe and Noah Naomi
"Their insights aren't just theories, they're tried, tested and proven truths about building lasting, faith-filled relationships."William Morris
"We decided to take Dave and Darlene's class to add more tools to our love box to continue to grow."Shirrell and Parrish Purnell
"Godly character and their genuine love for each couple that comes into their class is felt every week that you're there."Rick and Robin De la Rosa
“We have really been using a lot of the skills that David and Darlene have taught us while we’re overcoming obstacles in our relationship.”Valentina and Jay
Get the Marriage Ethos Group Leader Guide
- Practical and easy to use
- Faith-centered approach
- Designed for real ministry
Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Marriage Ethos only for couples in crisis?
No. It's designed for prevention as much as repair — helping couples build stronger habits and communication long before a crisis begins.
Do leaders need counseling credentials?
No formal credential is required. The Group Leader Guide is written so pastors, ministry leaders, and mentors can lead with confidence using a clear, step-by-step framework.
How are the book and workbook used?
The book lays the foundation, the workbook helps couples apply it together, and the Group Leader Guide ties both into a session-by-session structure for your group.
How can a group begin?
Request the Group Leader Guide above, review it with your team, and choose the format that fits your church or community's schedule.
Stronger Marriages Can Start With Better Conversations
Equip the couples in your community with the tools they need to grow closer, communicate better, and build a lasting legacy.
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